I had an insight about diagnosis. Imagine your worst day, you haven't slept in a week, you had a fight with your partner, got caught in the rain. Your boss gave that promotion to your colleague who stole your idea and some idiot sideswiped your car. There's a pimple on your nose and someone takes a photo of you and says this is going to be your profile picture for the rest of your life. WHAT?!!
A diagnosis describes where you are at, not who you are. Thank God